The topic of child abuse and neglect are sensitive subjects that are never taken lightly. Making an accusation of abuse on a parent when it is not true may reflect poorly on the parent that made the claim. This is not to say if you or another adult sees a sign or child abuse, or neglect should be overlooked or ignored. Knowing the signs of abuse and proving to be a safe confidant to the child is a step in bringing a child into safety.
Here are some signs to look for.
Signs of Emotional abuse
- Excessively withdrawn, fearful, or anxious about doing something wrong
- Extreme behaviors such as being extremely compliant, demanding, passive, aggressive
- Not really attached to the parent or caregiver
- Acting inappropriately like an adult such as caring for children or acting infantile by thumb-sucking, throwing tantrums
Signs of Physical abuse
- Frequent injuries, unexplained bruises, welts, or cuts
- Possible patterns and marks from objects other than hand
- A very observant or continues “high alert” state of being
- Shy or fear of touch, sudden movements, or fear of going home
- Wearing layered or long clothing during hot weather to hide injuries
Signs of Sexual abuse
- Having trouble or complaining of pain, discomfort while walking or sitting
- Displaying knowledge of sexual acts or seductive behavior that is inappropriate for their age
- Making vast efforts of avoiding someone without an obvious reason
- Not wanting to change clothes in front of anyone
- Not wanting to participate in physical activity
- Under the age of 14 with a STD or pregnancy
- Attempting to run away
Signs of Neglect
- Wearing clothes that does not fit, or not dressing for the weather
- Consistent poor hygiene such as being unbathed, matted or unwashed hair, noticeable body odor
- Untreated illnesses and physical injuries
- Frequently unsupervised, left alone, or being allowed to play in unsafe situations
- Frequent tardiness and or absences
Source:
Melinda Smith, M.A., Lawrence Robinson, and Jeanne Segal, Ph.D. “Child Abuse and Neglect” HelpGuide.org. Feb 24, 2023.
