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How couples can prepare for a successfully mediated divorce

On Behalf of | Oct 18, 2024 | Collaborative Law |

Most couples who are contemplating dissolving their marital union are likely aware that divorce is never easy. However, such couples should not lose all hope of a peaceful separation because mediation can offer a more collaborative, cost-effective and less stressful alternative to traditional court litigation. 

Mediation can allow couples to work with a neutral third party to resolve key issues without the adversarial atmosphere of a courtroom. However, for mediation to be truly effective, both parties must be adequately prepared—emotionally, practically and legally. 

Commit to open communication and cooperation

The foundation of any successful mediation is a willingness to communicate openly and work cooperatively. Both partners need to approach the process with good faith, keeping in mind that the goal is to reach mutually beneficial agreements rather than “winning.” Before entering mediation sessions, both individuals need to reflect on their priorities and concerns while being ready to listen to the other side.

Manage emotions and prepare mentally

Even for couples that are on the same page concerning the common issues that separating couples fight over, divorce can still be an emotionally draining experience. Therefore, entering mediation with a mindset that prioritizes problem-solving over conflict is crucial. Couples exploring mediation should be aware that emotions such as anger, frustration or grief can easily derail constructive discussions. Therefore, it’s beneficial to manage these feelings in advance. Some ways to prepare mentally include:

  • Practicing mindfulness techniques to remain calm under pressure
  • Seeking counseling for emotional support
  • Recognizing personal triggers and planning how to handle them during sessions

By focusing on solutions rather than dwelling on past conflicts, couples increase their chances of achieving fair and lasting agreements.

Putting in the effort to prepare for divorce mediation can pave the way for a smoother, more productive process. By fostering open communication, managing emotions and seeking legal guidance, couples can greatly improve the chances of a successful outcome. 

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